How God Deals with Failure

Passage: Exodus 32:15-35

The Big Idea

Moses comes down the mountain to deal with a people fallen into idolatry. He breaks the tablets, grinds up the calf, confronts Aaron’s excuses, and then goes back up to offer himself as their substitute: “Blot me out of Your book instead.” The Law brought death to three thousand that day. At Pentecost, the Spirit brought life to three thousand. Which do you think God wants us to live by?

How Do We Deal with Failure?

How do we handle failure? How do we think God handles ours? Do we get angry? Make excuses? Ignore it? How do we even measure failure?

We could follow the example of one elderly couple. The husband asked his wife how she’d managed her anger at his failures all those years. She said whenever he messed up, she’d calm herself down by cleaning the toilet. He was touched by such a selfless response, until she admitted she’d been using his toothbrush.

“Don’t get mad, get even.” That’s one approach. God’s is very different.

Down the Mountain (Exodus 32:15-16)

Moses turned and went down the mountain with the two tablets in his hands, written on both sides by the finger of God.

Moses had already pleaded for the people. Now he had to go down and deal with it. Just like Jesus came down from heaven. And one thing that showed Jesus was from God was that He kept God’s commandments perfectly. The only man ever to do so.

The tablets were written on both sides. No one could claim they couldn’t see God’s standard.

The Sound in the Camp (Exodus 32:17-18)

Joshua heard the noise and thought it was war. Moses said, “It’s not the sound of victory or defeat. It’s singing I hear.”

They weren’t even being attacked. No one forced them into idolatry. They did it all themselves.

Righteous Anger (Exodus 32:19-20)

When Moses saw the calf and the dancing, his anger burned. He threw down the tablets and broke them at the foot of the mountain. Then he burned the calf, ground it to powder, scattered it on the water and made the people drink it.

“Can I have righteous anger? Is that my spiritual gift?”

Maybe, if you’ve spent forty days alone with the Lord, sustained only by His Word; if you’ve already interceded for the people you’re angry at; and if you’re about to offer yourself to be condemned so they can be forgiven. If you have that heart, you can have righteous anger.

If not, your anger probably comes from the flesh. And the wrath of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God (James 1:20). Remember that when you discipline your kids. Correct without anger.

Moses was the mediator for these people. He loved them, and he was furious with them. He knew God’s standard and how much punishment they deserved. And now we watch him save them.

Broken tablets

He showed them what they’d done. They’d broken God’s law, and you can’t break one command without breaking them all. Whoever keeps the whole law but stumbles in one point is guilty of all (James 2:10).

Drinking the idol

He took their gold, gold God had given them and they had idolized, and destroyed it. Then he made them drink it. The idol would end up so disgusting that no one would ever want to touch it again.

Sometimes God disciplines us this way. He takes the thing we’ve idolized and makes it so gross to us that we never want it again. That’s a loving Father with rebellious kids.

Aaron’s Excuses (Exodus 32:21-24)

Moses asked Aaron, “What did these people do to you that you brought such a great sin on them?”

Get ready for excuses.

“Don’t be angry, my lord. You know these people. They’re set on evil.” Translation: “Calm down, bro. It’s not that big a deal. These people are just bad. Not like you and me.”

“They asked me to make gods. I told them to bring their gold, I threw it in the fire, and out came this calf!”

Aaron lied. He blamed the people. He took no responsibility. Self-focused and self-centered. His sin was so serious that Moses later said God was angry enough to destroy Aaron, and Moses had to pray for him too (Deuteronomy 9:20).

The Law Can’t Restrain the Heart (Exodus 32:25)

Moses saw that the people were running wild, because Aaron had let them get out of control (Exodus 32:25).

Aaron represents the priesthood of the Law, the Old Covenant. And the Law alone can never fix what’s wrong with the human heart. It doesn’t even restrain it. It actually stirs up sin (Romans 7:5). Only the renewing work of Jesus and the gospel can transform hearts.

Three Thousand Fell (Exodus 32:26-29)

Moses stood at the camp entrance and called, “Whoever is on the Lord’s side, come to me!” The Levites gathered to him. At his command, they went through the camp with swords, and about three thousand people died that day.

What can the Law do? It brings death. It’s very good at that. Keep it perfectly, and you live. Fail, and you die.

The letter kills, but the Spirit gives life (2 Corinthians 3:6).

“Blot Me Out Instead” (Exodus 32:30-32)

The next day Moses said, “You have committed a great sin. I’ll go up to the Lord; perhaps I can make atonement for your sin.”

He went back to the Lord and confessed that the people had committed a great sin by making a god of gold. Then he asked God to forgive them, and if not, to blot his own name out of the book God had written (Exodus 32:31-32).

Moses interceded a second time. This time he identified with the people so completely that he offered himself as their substitute.

Who does that remind you of?

He made no excuses for them. He only offered his own life for theirs. That’s love. That’s what grace looks like. That’s how it works with Jesus.

Only a Picture (Exodus 32:33-35)

The Lord answered that whoever sinned against Him would be blotted out of His book. Moses was to go lead the people, and God’s Angel would go before him. But punishment for sin would still come. And the Lord sent a plague because of the calf (Exodus 32:33-35).

In other words: “Moses, punishment and death will come. But you’re only a picture of the Savior. You can’t bear this cross.”

Jesus would have to endure all of God’s wrath. And He did. The great and terrible day of God’s wrath against sin fell on Jesus at the cross.

Today we live at peace with God because of His finished work (Romans 5:1). God is no longer angry at our sin, because it’s already been punished. We stand before a holy God clothed in Christ’s righteousness, like a bride in pure white for her bridegroom. All thanks to the blood of Jesus, who gave Himself as our redemption and bore the curse and the plague we deserved.

Propitiation

Propitiation means satisfying God’s righteous anger against sin.

Jesus had to be made like His brothers in every way, so He could be a merciful and faithful High Priest before God and make atonement for the sins of the people (Hebrews 2:17).

The Levites could never be merciful that day. They had to uphold the standard of the Law. But Jesus isn’t a priest like them. If perfection could come through the Levitical priesthood, why would another priest need to come in the order of Melchizedek (Hebrews 7:11)? Jesus comes from an older plan, a different way called grace, the way God dealt with Abraham more than four hundred years before Sinai.

Three Thousand and Three Thousand

Three thousand people died the day the Law came down to earth.

On the day of Pentecost, when Jesus sent His Spirit to live in people, three thousand people were saved (Acts 2:41).

Which do you think God wants us to live by? The Law, or the Spirit?

What Do We Ask For?

Sometimes we ask, “Give me a plan. Something solid to hold on to. Something I can do. The steps I need to take. A way to make it up to You.”

Or we can ask, “Give me Your Spirit by Your grace. I don’t deserve it and can’t earn it. But I ask You to give it to me anyway.”

  • Humility: “I have sinned. I’m broken. I can’t keep Your law.”
  • Faith: “I put my hope only in my Savior, the One who came down the mountain for me, who identified with me so completely that He became a man and asked to take my sin on Himself. He asked to be killed for me.”

Humility and faith together are what surrender looks like.

Surrender in Real Life

  • With God. Spend unhurried time with Him daily, listening through His Word and praying, letting His Spirit do His work instead of your own power.
  • With family. You’ve been adopted into God’s family. Gather with them regularly. Pray for them, love them, care for them, serve them.
  • With the world. Be intentional about being a witness. See yourself as a missionary where you live, work and play. Be ready to share your story and the gospel.

Grace Takeaway

Our failures are real, and God takes them seriously. But He doesn’t deal with them by demanding we get even or make it up. He sent a Mediator who did more than Moses could: Jesus wasn’t just willing to be blotted out for us; He actually bore the wrath. Surrender to Him, and live by the Spirit, not the letter.


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